"Death" by 12v battery is ubiquitous to modern EVs. IMO, it is an area even Tesla paid too little attention to while in the design phase (supposedly they are fixing that).
The problem is frustratingly simple. EVs do not need a starter battery, they can be readily charged via the DC/DC converter, so there is no need to put a very big 12v battery in the vehicle, right?
Well, these vehicle are
packed with 12v systems that can beat on that little 12v auxiliary battery pretty hard. This problem is compounded if design relies to much on this battery, rather than pulling off the DC/DC once the battery has fired the HV batt's relays.
The Elegant solution is two-pronged.
1. Spend a little more money on the auxiliary battery. Some manufactures are promising that they will go to a lithium battery for the 12v system.
2. Take better care of the 12v battery by limiting what can draw from it if the DC/DC is not running. This limits features of the vehicle while it is "off", so it not a popular direction with the designers.
My 2015 Spark EV does not have an elegant software set to protect it's 12v battery. The inelegant solution is a trickle charger pigtail:
Anecdotal evidence would suggest that the Ford software is similarly inelegant. One of these pigtails might be equally handy as a "revival tool" for these types of problems with the Lightning.