I got a 2023 Lariat ER on Jan 7th and it did NOT come with CSP. Dang.
My charger did not physically come with the car. I ordered it (for free) from a stand-alone website using my name and reservation code.
My dealer actually did the order process for me when I signed my paperwork. They just brought up the website and went through the steps, then had me confirm my contact/shipping info.
As your in the US, the site wouldn't apply, but the site they ordered mine from was:
*You ordered the extended range battery configuration on your new F-150 Lightning, so you’ll receive the Ford Charge Station Pro at no extra charge. In order to arrange for the delivery of your charger, you’ll need to provide your reservation number which was sent to you via email. Please note...
fordcharging.ca
Charger was shipped to my house in about 10 days.
I'd check with your dealer to see if they are doing the same for US customers.